How stress can broken our happiness?
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It is wonderful moment if we can reside among family. Spend our time with family is important, but sometimes it is difficult to perform since we have to do our routine job. Our job takes most of our time and makes us stress. nnSo, we should take an action to save our time for our family to make us happy. Possibly, we could stay with family only for limited time. Don't be afraid. All we need actually just spend one hour. But we must make it as a routine activity.nnIt is up to you what activities you want to have with family. You could have video game, watching television or play a board game. To make it better for family, it is recommended to perform these activities with all family members. If we can join together, there will be a lot of conversation will occur. nnOutdoor activities can be a perfect choice if you want to see other environment than your home. There are so many outdoor activities we can choose, such as going to park, beach, or family restaurant. But you have to extend your time if you have desire to achieve these activities. This is an effective way to decrease stress. n nHowever for some people, they don't really like to have other activities when they have stress. It is easy to understand that working 8 hours everyday will make us stress. Working 8 hours each day is not adequate for some people and can add additional hours to meet the deadline or simply show off to boss. n nIt could add more problem if people take family time to finish the job at home. The situation in our home is different than our office situation. Also we will stick on the chair or in front of the computer to do our jobs while our family does their activities outside our room. nnTherefore we need to set up what is our first priority in life. If you are family-oriented type of person, you need to create a plan to spend time with family. Do your job at office and spend your time with family at home. You should force yourself to finish any project at office or you could finish it another time. nnWe can freely to chat about a lot of topics with our relatives if we can drop our stress. Interaction between us and with family will be better than ever. So we will feel more fresh and free, you family will feel it too. If we enthusiasm to obtain joy with family, you can arrange to finish your duty at office. nnProbably you still confuse why you should surrender your time for family to have fun life. Actually, high stress can trigger bigger problem in our life if we don't know how to maintain it. This problem will affect all of people in your family.nnStress will change our attitude. We will easier to get angry to any situation that probably we don't need to get angry. How we react to our family will give bad mood to our entire family member. In the end, this could give bad effect to our family when they did other activities. This could cause problem for our kids if we have high stress at home. It is not really good for their growth as well. nnHere's some problem that affect kids if we get stress. n1. Our kids will memorize every moment in our house. n2. Our kids' school activities will get affect.n3. We don't educate our kids that our kids must have. n4. We don't train our kids regarding discipline. nnWhen the stress comes out, we will take action oddly. Our kids will memorize any strange behavior and it is possible for them to copy it. Other than that, if we continue our stress and get angry for many times at home, it could become bad memory for our children. Unhealthy condition at home is not healthy for our kids mind in the future. nnDuplication of our awful action is terrible for our kids' live. We showing up in front of them, it is similar like we instruct them about awful action. Our children cannot build up good affiliation with horrible personality. Their class mate and boss won't like them and their love one will leave them. nnSchool is a place for our children to gain knowledge, so they require having good attention for what they study. Our kids cannot catch up for what their teacher say in the class if they don't focus. In the end, our kids will not learn anything at school and they will lose some important knowledge that valuable for their future. nnFor kids that have stress in mind, they tend to refuse to active at school. Stress already wipes off their interest to have activities, although they love those activities so much. Perhaps your kids have a good talent on sport activities, but they cannot perform well since their stress rising up. nnWe need to guide our kids every time. Our kids should be able to make a different between good and bad in their life. Since in their live to the future, they should step their foot in better path to have bright career. If we never guide them, how do you feel if seeing your kids blame for something serious?nnYou need to worries if your children get guidance from people around them. If those people are still your family, it is still good. How about if those people are not your family and they don't really care about your children future. nnBear in mind, our surrounding won't always give good assistance to our family future. Stay out of bad stranger who abuse the drug. Bad stranger can convince our children to use prohibited drug. We all know for sure that drug abuse can make our future broken. So we should guide our kids to stay away from drug abuse.nnDiscipline is needed in our life to do our routine. Discipline can force us to finish our routine because we know it is our responsibility. If we don't discipline ourselves, we will feel lazy to finish our responsible. Discipline has a meaning as self-motivation to finish any responsible we have without taking an order from other people all the time. nnWhile our children still very young, it is recommended to start your kids' self-discipline learning. In my opinion, brainwashing is the best method to teach our children about discipline. Brainwash can be done by give an example on everyday task. Our kids will follow an example we gave did to perform some task, until they are good at it.nnIs it possible to enjoy our life with family? Yes, hundreds of them. Our house is a key source of our life. House can be a mirror if we have a good life or not. Furthermore, the culture that we recognize actually grew up in our house. Our kids could easily get an effect if we do not create enjoyable condition at home. nnParents who get a stress are not because of their office condition. As a parent from time to time act childish that even trigger the stress. By giving our children the example, they can understand how to become good person. nnA bad connection between wife and husband can cause a broken family. Our kids will stress if see us as parent fighting each other. To handle this problem, parent should be able to calm down and think what best for family then forgive their spouse. nnHaving a conversation within family members is significant. Your kids can duplicate bad behavior when they watch television alone. Explain to your kids the consequences they will get for what they did. If your children still don't know, you can keep educate them in other time. nnCommunication also can increase understanding between husband and wife. The parents should be able to discuss in a calm way to finish any problem. Don't solve any problem with high temper. High temper will not solve any problem.
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